Smiles Together.....

With the days...months...years passing by we had lost touch with each other. 
The times we had spent together were getting blurred in our minds. Very rarely could we meet each other. Here I, am talking about 4 best friends in school  “ADPS”. The distances increased as all of us settled in different places of which two being out of India.

But the bond has always been strong though the communication became a little weak. This was given a spark today when I decided to relive the moments with a video conference. Last week I had gone with a couple of best friends in Bahrain to watch a chic flick movie” Veere Di Wedding” which impacted something within me to recall all the precious moments we spent together in the first 20 years of our lives. How could that connectivity be lost with distances and busy lives amongst us and yeah I decided to message on my whatsapp grp. “Charpai” .

I was very excited to watch all of us together after a very long time but then P messaged that skype doesn’t work in her country. It was disappointing as D was in office managing time and S was also eagerly waiting.. Then suddenly S suggested for another app named IMO which could help us all talk and view. Oh wow and we proceeded. Ten years later it felt like a magical moment to be together again with the help of internet. And guess we all spoke to each other for almost an hour …..talking about our lives, kids………


The smiles together after a decade is worth sharing. And we promised to keep in touch with a new start all over again...

P.S. 4th June was the date but posting the blog today..
 

Happiness

Hmm…. after long I got the time to spend some free time with my laptop....the past couple of months had been extremely busy with exam preparations and writing them. 

The past few days I have been low on emotional front due to some personal problems but I strongly feel these won’t be a hindrance in following my dreams. I know to achieve my dreams and live a life I love, I have to let go these little problems and face them with full strength and courage. 

Overcoming these emotional problems my Man has been my greatest strength. It would have never been possible without his support. Want to quote some lines i read somewhere which touched me deeply….. 

A man once asked his master guide,"why is everyone here so happy except me?”. The master replied,"because they have learnt to see goodness and beauty and happiness everywhere." 

 We have a choice to choose happiness over misery and false judgements and resentment caused thereafter. We are all born in complete harmony and synchronicity with ourselves and higher consciousness. It is the deep social conditioning that follows, that creates barriers for us to be aware of the choices we have. Choices, that are personal to us and even after so much confusion and disorientation about life and our journey and role in it, there are times when the jigsaw fits perfectly for all of us. It's these AAAhhhaaa... moments which create the exuberance and excitement in us that make us believe in ourselves. The question here is:
 

Why wait for these aahhhaaa...moments to feel the happiness?
Why not try and listen to our core more often?
Why not look within for answers?
Why look for happiness in places outside of us?
Why try to be happy and not just be happy?
Why not be happy with ourselves to experience happiness all around us at all times?
 

The answer is within us………!!!

 

 

Start all over again…..

Studying after marriage sounds difficult and impossible to many people but I wanted to continue my studies. For me it’s the other way round,that I, needed to make little adjustments with my married life and the worldly distractions.

 

Yessss!!! After completing MBA in Finance, I could have taken up a job very easily instead I decided to pursue my desire of becoming a CA(Chartered Accountancy). My Man n in-laws have been very supportive since the very first day I joined CA.So, I geared up with full confidence and enthusiasm for the first level knowing it is a very tough course and cleared it in one go J.Oh! My Family and I felt so happy.

 

The Family, I got married to has been into this profession since generations. They gave me full support and encouragement for the next level. I worked harder this time and wrote the exams. The papers went well and I was optimistic for the result. On 5^th Feb.2013 the results were out. I was so anxious that I waited for my Man to see the result. And…shocking to know that I did not clear L…. I cried n cried…..

 

It’s a challenge to again get back to the same books and start all over again…

I have made up my mind to not loose hope and study harder this time. I am blessed with so loving n caring people around who support and encourage me in all walks of life…..so here I have started all over again!!!

 

My First ever.....

Its vague but of late I got addicted to reading blogs apart from my text books and so here I am with my First Post..... ahhh I m so happy today. The Birthday fever is not yet over with all friends,family and relatives still wishing me...... feel so blessed :)

 

My 30th Birthday on 30th Jan'13..........but still it feels the same.Birthday celebrations were with the same enthusiasm as always with a lovely surprise lunch by my friends and an overwhelming dinner with my Man.  

 

2013 has given me a good start to achieve one of the Resolutions I had thought for this Year in the very beginning. So I have become optimistic for others too.

 

 



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